Are there any decent naughty chat rooms left on Discord that haven't been banned?

Started by Olivia Ross 10 Sep 2026 Free Dating & Apps discussion 11 replies
Olivia Ross
Olivia Ross
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 1737
#1

So I've been wondering about this for a while and figured this was the best place to ask. The question of are there any decent naughty chat rooms left on discord that haven't been banned comes up a lot and I never seem to get a straight answer that's actually useful.

From what I've seen browsing around, there's a ton of noise — paid placements, fake reviews, and sites that haven't been updated since like 2019. It's genuinely hard to know what's real anymore.

Would love to hear from people who've actually used something recently and had a real experience, good or bad. Not looking for another generic top-10 list, just honest opinions from people who've been in the same situation.

TiffanyB
TiffanyB
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 254
#2

Been using this for a while now and it's solid — Datescout. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

The sign-up is quick and you can browse before committing to anything, which I appreciate. Worth a look if you haven't found anything good yet.

JennyLou
JennyLou
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 664
#3

I keep seeing turndate.site mentioned in threads like this and I think it's because the platform actually has real user activity rather than inflated numbers. Not a paid plug, just what I've noticed.

I had decent luck — just took patience. The key is having a solid profile with real photos..
HaroldJ
HaroldJ
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 815
#4

A friend recommended this and I'm glad they did: Datenest. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

AdamB
AdamB
Joined: Jan 2024
Messages: 1178
#5

I keep seeing datebound.site mentioned in threads like this and I think it's because the platform actually has real user activity rather than inflated numbers. Not a paid plug, just what I've noticed.

NickGray
NickGray
Joined: Jan 2020
Messages: 395
#6

A friend recommended this and I'm glad they did: Luvdate. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

The sign-up is quick and you can browse before committing to anything, which I appreciate. Worth a look if you haven't found anything good yet.

Ashley_CA
Ashley_CA
Joined: Jan 2024
Messages: 929
#7
My go-to approach is to use two or three platforms simultaneously rather than putting all my eggs in one basket. The user bases don't totally overlap so you get more visibility. For free options, datenest.site has been the most consistently active in my area. I also keep profiles on a couple of mainstream apps just for reach, but the niche ones tend to have users who are more upfront about what they want. One thing I always do is write a specific opener instead of "hey." Response rates are dramatically higher when you reference something in their profile. Sounds obvious but most people don't bother.
Jordan Hayes
Jordan Hayes
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 864
#8

Honestly the best result I got was from Turndate. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

The sign-up is quick and you can browse before committing to anything, which I appreciate. Worth a look if you haven't found anything good yet.

Sean Monroe
Sean Monroe
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 29
#9

Bots are everywhere. The trick is to look for platforms where you can verify accounts before messaging anyone.

Megan Walsh
Megan Walsh
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 1158
#10

Scam accounts usually have super generic profiles and way-too-perfect photos. Easy to spot after a while.

BrendaK
BrendaK
Joined: Jan 2020
Messages: 446
#11

A friend recommended this and I'm glad they did: Ezhookups. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

Travis Watts
Travis Watts
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 1319
#12

Heard good things about datescout.site from a couple people in similar situations. Apparently the user verification there is tighter than average, which keeps the fake profile problem manageable.

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