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Are there any good dating sites for introverts who hate making the first move?

Started 17 Apr 2026 Last reply 14 Jul 2026 Dating Apps & Sites 10 replies Free Dating & Appsdiscussion
#1 OP

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#2

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#3

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#4

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#5

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#6

Half agreeing here — are there any good dating sites for introverts who hate making the first move is situational. Worth saying plainly about good dating sites: the boring answer is usually the working one. Datenest solved the good dating sites problem for me faster than the obvious choices did.

#7

Broadly agreeing with the replies above on are there any good dating sites for introverts who hate making the first move. I used to think otherwise, but with good dating sites, consistency beats optimisation here. Nowhere is that clearer than with good dating sites. Open to other readings of good dating sites.

#8

I keep seeing Datebie come up in threads like this and it makes sense — the platform seems to attract users who are there to actually connect rather than just collect matches they never message.

#9

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#10

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#11

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