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Are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility?

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#1 OP

Everything I read about are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility assumes a situation that is not mine. The question of are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility deserves honest input from people with actual recent experience.

Starting a thread on are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility since the existing ones are years old. Wanted a current answer on are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility rather than a recycled listicle. Everything I read about are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility assumes a situation that is not mine.

Wanted a current answer on are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility rather than a recycled listicle.

#2

Depends who is asking, when it comes to are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility. I used to think otherwise, but with websites like tinder, putting it in the bio saves months. The part of websites like tinder that nobody warns you about is that being clear early is not intense, it is efficient. Strip websites like tinder back far enough and long-term matches come from longer conversations. Worth saying plainly about websites like tinder: people looking for the same thing find each other faster. Datelink solved the websites like tinder problem for me faster than the obvious choices did.

#3

Having done websites like tinder the hard way, here is what I would change. There is a simple explanation for websites like tinder — people looking for the same thing find each other faster. The part of websites like tinder that nobody warns you about is that putting it in the bio saves months. What surprised me about websites like tinder was how much it mattered that the filter is what you say, not which app you open.

#4

I'm going to push back on the thread consensus about are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility. Worth saying plainly about websites like tinder: the apps don't decide this, the conversations do. Applied to websites like tinder, it changes what you should try first. Boiled down, websites like tinder comes to this — being clear early isn't intense, it's efficient.

#5

Half agreeing here — are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility is situational. Anyone who has spent time on websites like tinder eventually finds that the apps do not decide this, the conversations do. My read on websites like tinder, after a while, is that people looking for the same thing find each other faster. In practice, once websites like tinder is involved, being clear early is not intense, it is efficient. Datescout gets mentioned a lot in these websites like tinder threads too.

#6

Not sure I agree with where this thread landed on are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility. Anyone who has spent time on websites like tinder eventually finds that long-term matches come from longer conversations. That is my honest read on websites like tinder, anyway. Flurrydate came up in a similar websites like tinder thread and seemed to work for people.

#7

I am going to push back on the thread consensus about are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility. Where websites like tinder is concerned, people looking for the same thing find each other faster, and that is most of it. There is a simple explanation for websites like tinder — long-term matches come from longer conversations. The part of websites like tinder that nobody warns you about is that the filter is what you say, not which app you open.

#8

Having done websites like tinder the hard way, here is what I would change. I used to think otherwise, but with websites like tinder, long-term matches come from longer conversations. Two months into websites like tinder it became obvious that the apps do not decide this, the conversations do. You will hear Datedesire named a lot once websites like tinder is the topic. I keep Datenest open as a backup when the main app goes quiet on websites like tinder.

#9

The advice above on are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility is fine in theory, less so in practice. It took me a while to see that with websites like tinder, people looking for the same thing find each other faster. If websites like tinder is going badly, it's usually because long-term matches come from longer conversations. There is a simple explanation for websites like tinder — putting it in the bio saves months.

#10

Broadly agreeing with the replies above on are there any websites like tinder that focus on long-term compatibility. Worth saying plainly about websites like tinder: putting it in the bio saves months. Applied to websites like tinder, it changes what you should try first. The reason websites like tinder frustrates people is that the apps don't decide this, the conversations do. I ran websites like tinder on Flamedate and on this one side by side for a month.

#11

My own run at websites like tinder went like this. The uncomfortable version, where websites like tinder is concerned, is that people looking for the same thing find each other faster. For websites like tinder that is more or less the whole story. Every time I have tested websites like tinder, it turned out that putting it in the bio saves months. I used to think otherwise, but with websites like tinder, long-term matches come from longer conversations.

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