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Are there dating apps for women where women have more control?

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#1 OP

Hoping someone here has tested are there dating apps for women where women have more control recently enough to say. The question of are there dating apps for women where women have more control deserves an honest take from people who've actually used something recently.

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Genuinely stuck on are there dating apps for women where women have more control, so I am asking rather than guessing.

#2

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#3

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#4

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#5

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#6

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#7

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#8

Same conclusion as the earlier replies about are there dating apps for women where women have more control. I used to think otherwise, but with dating apps women, doing the basics well outperforms any trick.

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