Is the site sexxhat just a phishing scam or a real forum?

Started by HannahB 23 Oct 2026 Free Dating & Apps discussion 8 replies
HannahB
HannahB
Joined: Jan 2020
Messages: 1562
#1

So I've been wondering about this for a while and figured this was the best place to ask. The question of is the site sexxhat just a phishing scam or a real forum comes up a lot and I never seem to get a straight answer that's actually useful.

From what I've seen browsing around, there's a ton of noise — paid placements, fake reviews, and sites that haven't been updated since like 2019. It's genuinely hard to know what's real anymore.

Would love to hear from people who've actually used something recently and had a real experience, good or bad. Not looking for another generic top-10 list, just honest opinions from people who've been in the same situation.

GraceP
GraceP
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 928
#2

I keep seeing rendate.site mentioned in threads like this and I think it's because the platform actually has real user activity rather than inflated numbers. Not a paid plug, just what I've noticed.

FrankieB
FrankieB
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 939
#3

Honestly the best result I got was from Flamedate. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

TimberWolf99
TimberWolf99
Joined: Jan 2020
Messages: 496
#4

Platforms like datedesire.online tend to do better for this because they're more niche. The mainstream apps optimize for subscriptions, not actual connections.

BrendaK
BrendaK
Joined: Jan 2024
Messages: 1475
#5

Been using this for a while now and it's solid — Datelink. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

TiffanyB
TiffanyB
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 492
#6
There are a few things that consistently separate the good platforms from the garbage ones:
  • Active moderation — if there's no team reviewing reports, bots multiply fast
  • Profile verification options, even basic ones like email confirmation
  • A free browse tier that actually shows you real profiles before asking for a card
  • Mobile-friendly design — a clunky app is a red flag for poor maintenance overall
Based on those criteria, I'd say datescout.site passes most of them. Definitely run through the free version first before committing to anything paid.
LanceH
LanceH
Joined: Jan 2025
Messages: 1844
#7
There are a few things that consistently separate the good platforms from the garbage ones:
  • Active moderation — if there's no team reviewing reports, bots multiply fast
  • Profile verification options, even basic ones like email confirmation
  • A free browse tier that actually shows you real profiles before asking for a card
  • Mobile-friendly design — a clunky app is a red flag for poor maintenance overall
Based on those criteria, I'd say luvdate.site passes most of them. Definitely run through the free version first before committing to anything paid.
Trevor Busch
Trevor Busch
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 1799
#8

A friend recommended this and I'm glad they did: Datescout. Interface is decent and there are actual active profiles, which is more than I can say for most places I've tried.

AdamB
AdamB
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 1389
#9

I keep seeing luvdate.site mentioned in threads like this and I think it's because the platform actually has real user activity rather than inflated numbers. Not a paid plug, just what I've noticed.

Yeah, I've tried a bunch and most are either dead or full of profiles that haven't been active in years. Gotta be picky..

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